Women are sexy objects not sex objects, so don't just lie there and receive like your were sold to him, be active and participate! Men enjoy sex so much that they usually have a big finish (Aaaaaarrrrgh!!!*the sound of an ecstatic man). Woman, have you ever wondered what it feels like to achieve an orgasm and sleep off?
The orgasmic process was referred to by a close friend as"a feeling of highness better than weed, better than dope" l laughed and almost passed out. On the contrary, a colleague said orgasms are overrated and shouldn't be discussed....but you know me, I go talk my own.
Just as you start to come, you lose orientation in time and place, and in some cases you don't even know who is making you come! Infact if you are standing when it starts, you may feel you are in space and fall. My view is that orgasms are simply the best antidepressants you can take. Take one at least twice weekly with or without food.
If you enjoy sex and achieve orgasms, congratulations! but for those who do not achieve orgasms, then you are missing out on probably the best psychostimulant in the world.....yep. Anyone can achieve an orgasm, it is just knowing how to get there that is the problem. Except those women that have severe damage during cesarean section of child birth, as long as your nerves are working well you can COME.Other problems that can impair orgasms include gynecological and medical conditions like masses, cysts, infections, vaginal dryness, vaginismus and some prescription medications.
Unlike males that would have experimented and masturbated in their youth, women hardly go down that lane and thus about 80% of women do not know what to experience when they finally start having sex. Most women do not talk to their spouses about sex and the man might not know what to do.So when the movie starts, she sets her timer and starts thinking about making dinner and the children. After sometime the man sees her as a sex object (not sexy object) he goes to when he needs to ease off.
A woman with anorgasmia can be helped with a few sessions combining cognitive behavioral therapy, couples therapy and sex therapy. The success rate is almost 90% if you seek help, and before you know it, you wouldn't mind if the door of the children's room is closed........hehehehehhehehe
Happy holiday
Doc Laitan
