SXT 152 THE ROSE GARDEN ; WHAT THE VAGINA SHOULD SMELL LIKE

When he puts his face to your congo/genital area, he should feel high.........He should become delusional and believe he is walking in a beautiful garden that smells like roses. Can you boast of having a congo that smells so good and would keep a man yours forever and disgusted by every other congos? I call this magical congo the  witchescongos.

Quickie A witchescongo is a congo that makes a man whisper "my precious"....... in Smeagol's voice. A congo that signs blank cheques ..A congo that looks as beautiful as it smells.

I have smelt somethings in my life,  doctors are trying.....Obstetrics/ gynecology, general medicine and surgery postings in med school and during intership, sometimes as a psychiatrist, and now finally, everytime....as a sexologist.
So believe me when I say the odour of the female congo varies alot but generally, it has a strong lingering distinctive odour.

Quickie Mr Young(the penis) smells like manure if a guy has been at work all day especially wearing tight pants . Don't expect a blow job(bj), most ladies readily offer a bj after he takes a bath.

If you want to know what your original congo smell is, take a shower without soap, rinse your congo well, then wait for about 30 minutes. The discharge should be a bit concentrated enough to be appreciated. Put your finger in and around your congo(don't get carried away), and then bring it to your nose. Later in the day, sweat and diet could have changed the odour, so do this in the morning.

Immediately after sex, the vaginal smell is very concentrated depending on how wet you were during sex.

Quickie Sex may be painful for women during harmattan, so lubrication is key to avoid micro vaginal tears which may cause pain for weeks.

The menstrual cycle also dictates the smell of the congo and this varies for different women,  the smell may range from odourless, little smell or a concentrated odour a few days before your peroid, to "babe how far" a few days after the period when a woman is expected to be very horny.

The more you try using perfumes and scented cream and soap around your congo to achieve good smell and cleanliness, the more irritation and infections you are likely to have,and this can be really smelly .

If you have noticed a fish smelling odour, you most likely have an infection. Some infections however are odourless, but may cause itching and pain.

Other causes of bad smells include, bad hygiene,forgotten tampons, excessive sweating, infections, cervical cancer, putting foreign objects in the vagina during sex(you would be surprised what people insert into their vaginas for pleasure),  anal penetration before vaginal sex, and eating lots of garlic (better believe it).

How do you get your vagina to smell like a rose garden? Very simple steps.....
1. Reduce your pubic hair, or shave it all off after your menstrual period
2. Wash with water only or unscented soap. Avoid over-washing. When you do, you disrupt the normal bacteria living in that area and cause an imbalance, thus giving room for other bacteria to cause infections.
3. Do not apply cream to the lips of the vulva or inside the vagina
4. Apply very little perfume to your mid thighs,  no where close to your congo. You can also apply around your belly button. These smell trickle down to the congo without causing any irritation.
5. Please avoid douching
6 . Avoid hot baths #guiltyofthisone
7. Do not repeat underwear, discard old underwear. The rule is to discard every 6months if you have at least 10 panties.
8. Pay close attention to your diet;
Excess sugar is said to cause or worsen yeast infection
Strawberries and vanilla may linger in your body secretions and hence give your congo a sweet smell
Avoid excess or raw garlic
Taking yoghourt is great for a healthy vagina and smell
Eating fruits are generally good for the smell of body fluids including vaginal discharges
9 . Always wipe from front to back if you use wipes
10.I advice ladies to "dab" and not wipe or rinse after going for a pee.

I hope you have learnt something new, keep reading DLSB, follow on twitter @doclaitan ......cheers.

SXT 151 The smelly vagina

Hi........Doc Laitan is back! !!!!!!!! The one and only Sexologist you know, the THIS, the THAT...Enough of my grandiosity, but you cannot deny that you have missed me.....I have missed blogging too! . Last year was so busy that I couldn't blog at all. Well, I am back and you can expect regular posts like before.

My personal person Mariam suggested this topic and those that know her would agree Mariam can be likened to a tall glass of San Antonio (for those that appreciate good wine, too bad she's not single). Well, she suggested this topic because she thought most ladies would enjoy reading it (since we own the vagina). Well, I think men would enjoy reading about it more since they are the notorious ones in the pussy eating biz.......lets talk sex...

I would discuss this topic in 4 parts, so be sure not to miss out on any.
Part 1; The beautiful pink lady (What the vagina/vulva should look like)
Part 2; The rose garden (What the vagina should ideally smell like)
Part 3; Delicious red velvet (what the vagina should taste like)
Pary 4; Honey! what's that smell? (The smelly vagina)

Are you ready for 2015? Oya na....enjoy reading


PART ONE; THE BEAUTIFUL PINK LADY (WHAT VAGINA SHOULD LOOK LIKE)
I hope you know that what you see on the outside is called the vulva while the "hole" is actually the vagina, so i would like you to always use appropriate terms when referring to your genitalia, but for fun sake, lets just call it the "congo".

I am almost certain that most women have never picked a mirror to really look at what their congo looks like. Some ladies don't like what they see, and some would even say they couldn't care less what it looks like as long as it does the job it is meant to do . Well, if the congo is just a passage way for a baby, then you dont have to be concerned about what "she" looks like, but if sex is a major activity for you and you are interested in good sexual health, then you should be interested in what she looks like.

The first picture is that of the Bisi's vulva with an intact hymen(a virgin), the next is a picture of Iya Bisi's vulva.(really expecting full naked women? really?)












The colour of the inner areas are pink while the external areas are brown. Pallor(blood hemoglobin level) can also be assessed by how pink the vulva is, but I am sure guys won't start using this as a pick up line ; Hi babe, you look pale, lemme check your vulva just to be sure you don't need a doctor!

The hymen is a thin fold round the vagina seen before the first sexual encounter although it may be absent in some people. On the outer part, the most sensitive part of the congo is the part where the labia minora meets at the upper part. Ladies that enjoy masturbation usually target this area and men also "deliver" by gently stroking or kissing this area. The g spot is also a very sensitive part inside the female genitalia, but we would discuss about the g spot at another time.

The genital area should be looked at monthly by yourself, the same way you look and examine your boobs. This is called the genital/vulva/vaginal self examination. This enables you to be familiar with what is normal and early signs of abnormalities like infections, warts or cancer. To do this, rest your back on at least 2 firm pillows and be semi prone at about 45 degrees, have a mirror resting againt another pillow opposite you at an angle that you can see your vulva in the mirror. Once you are comfortable, look from outside inwards, then put your middle(longest) finger into your vagina to be familiar with what is normal....HEY.....DO NOT GET CARRIED AWAY AT THIS POINT.....This is a medical check up, lol .

Before looking at yourself, ensure a clean shave . I usually advise that after your menstrual period, you shave and take a good look and feel of yourself.....#ourdaddyisintroubletonight, lol.

Looking at your congo helps to build your confidence level and self esteem, you need to love what you see and understand what turns him on by just looking at it. Did you know that the first step to sexual enjoyment is loving your body and the power that lies in the beautiful pink lady between your thighs ? Vaginal self examination also helps to know your genitalia and be aware of early treatable problems like infections and cancer. Be self aware, love your body, love sex and remain faithful to your partner always.

Happy new year everyone, keep reading DLSB.