Now if you are at work, take your phone or tablet or laptop and head for a coded place like the toilet. I want to tell you the only way to get that partner of yours aroused.
Now, what you would do is Simple, beg! Beg like u have never begged before (lol), if necessary cry sef.
Seriously, you might be dealing with Sexual Aversion or Lack/Loss of Sexual Enjoyment .The good news is
that both disorders can be managed by therapy.
that both disorders can be managed by therapy.
Time to learn a few things:
Sexual aversion is when the babe or guy has strong negative feelings about sex so much that it is avoided (the girl dey see Iyanya's nude pix for maestro media or LIB, e no move am @all. Or like the guy we gave Beyonce as Val gift and wasn't interested, lol). Single sexually active women don't commonly have this problem unlike the married ones. Married women use work, kids, stress, brokenness, family issues and especially their menstrual cycle problems as excuses. (Whew!, such a long list, na wa o).
Guys use excuses like work, traffic, financial issues, sports and headaches. The guys that fall into this category are usually the ones with little or no prior experience but in the case of the women, for no reason they just consider sex a stressful domestic duty.
Lack of sexual enjoyment is when the person responds and achieves orgasms but there is no pleasure and thus would hardly initiate sex. This is more common in women although men too are victims. In this case, the guy would have to do a lot of chasing, begging and fighting to get sex from the woman (or vice versa). Eventually, the partner would lose interest or derive pleasure elsewhere. A guy once said although he loves his wife so much, he cheats on her. The reason he gave was that asking for sex made his wife very angry no matter how hard he tried to please her. He eventually got tired of asking and got himself a mistress, now at home sex comes once in month and his wife is happy thinking "he understands"(duh!).
I am happy to abuse such women and say na wa for you. These men work so hard to make u comfortable and look good o, but when they ask you to raise your legs and point it to the fan, you give excuses. It is ok to play hard to get sometimes but do you want to kill him? I read a research article that mentioned that sexual intercourse at least 3 times a week protects against prostate cancer in men and even sef cervical cancer in women.
I beg give the guy what he wants, when he wants, but not necessarily how he wants it o. (Don't let him tie you to a NEPA pole). I can’t shout o.
Some people say Valentine's day is overrated but I disagree strongly especially when I think about my lonely depressed patients. On such special days, they just need someone to love.
So keep loving. Love me je je (sure that sounded razz, but it's my article abi? Lol)
Doc Laitan
