27 March 2013

Dear Ayo,

It is not strange for couples to drift apart after marriage. They become emotionally detached and get engaged in other social responsibilities like hustling and raising kids. 
I would not scold you so much but babe you fuck up big time!

I am sure that your Miss Caro looks like Wole Shoyinka's head
right now (lol). You mean all this while you let your man leave the house without shagging him silly at least two times a week? Guys that work in "reputable companies" have "reputable mistresses" too. If he knows that sex seems like a huge responsibility to you, he would find someone who can do it  for you.

While you were busy raising you son, you forgot about Steve's sexual needs and
he got used to it. There are 3 important things for men: sex, food and financial sustenance, all other things are secondary. When you take one from him, he focuses on the other two. Balance is created when a man has all three. So depriving him of sex only made him focus on food (which may include alcohol, cannabis, cigarettes or excess edible food) and making more money.

It is not too late to pick up from where you left off. You have to make changes in the following areas;
1. Create a new you and express your femininity.
If you don't like make-up, change your mind but keep it simple. Make an exciting but conservative hair do, I recommend something long (men prefer long hair to short styles). Identify your selling point and capitalize on it ( e.g breasts, arse, long Legs, beautiful Smile etc).
2. Take care of your body.
Shave off pubic hair, legs and armpits. Take your bath with perfumed body wash and not regular soap, to achieve a seductive body smell. Do something nice with your nails, french tips etc. and make sure he notices these changes in you.
3.Change your underwear.
You need new ones to create a fantasy in his mind and I recommend lacy matching ones
4. Use up all the points of sexual arousal (SXT 108).
5. After trying these steps and it leads to sex but you don't enjoy it, try the sensate focus (SXT 106) because after so long, the feelings may return gradually.

Be sensitive to the needs of your man even if you are not in the mood, his penis was made for your vagina and no other person's! So talk to him when you are not in the mood, don't be harsh. Before you know it, your clothes are off and you are flying through the clouds screaming "Steeeeeeveee"!!!! (lol ).

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Doc Laitan