My personal person Mariam suggested this topic and those that know her would agree Mariam can be likened to a tall glass of San Antonio (for those that appreciate good wine, too bad she's not single). Well, she suggested this topic because she thought most ladies would enjoy reading it (since we own the vagina). Well, I think men would enjoy reading about it more since they are the notorious ones in the pussy eating biz.......lets talk sex...
I would discuss this topic in 4 parts, so be sure not to miss out on any.
Part 1; The beautiful pink lady (What the vagina/vulva should look like)
Part 2; The rose garden (What the vagina should ideally smell like)
Part 3; Delicious red velvet (what the vagina should taste like)
Pary 4; Honey! what's that smell? (The smelly vagina)
Are you ready for 2015? Oya na....enjoy reading
PART ONE; THE BEAUTIFUL PINK LADY (WHAT VAGINA SHOULD LOOK LIKE)
I hope you know that what you see on the outside is called the vulva while the "hole" is actually the vagina, so i would like you to always use appropriate terms when referring to your genitalia, but for fun sake, lets just call it the "congo".
I am almost certain that most women have never picked a mirror to really look at what their congo looks like. Some ladies don't like what they see, and some would even say they couldn't care less what it looks like as long as it does the job it is meant to do . Well, if the congo is just a passage way for a baby, then you dont have to be concerned about what "she" looks like, but if sex is a major activity for you and you are interested in good sexual health, then you should be interested in what she looks like.
The first picture is that of the Bisi's vulva with an intact hymen(a virgin), the next is a picture of Iya Bisi's vulva.(really expecting full naked women? really?)
The colour of the inner areas are pink while the external areas are brown. Pallor(blood hemoglobin level) can also be assessed by how pink the vulva is, but I am sure guys won't start using this as a pick up line ; Hi babe, you look pale, lemme check your vulva just to be sure you don't need a doctor!
The hymen is a thin fold round the vagina seen before the first sexual encounter although it may be absent in some people. On the outer part, the most sensitive part of the congo is the part where the labia minora meets at the upper part. Ladies that enjoy masturbation usually target this area and men also "deliver" by gently stroking or kissing this area. The g spot is also a very sensitive part inside the female genitalia, but we would discuss about the g spot at another time.
The genital area should be looked at monthly by yourself, the same way you look and examine your boobs. This is called the genital/vulva/vaginal self examination. This enables you to be familiar with what is normal and early signs of abnormalities like infections, warts or cancer. To do this, rest your back on at least 2 firm pillows and be semi prone at about 45 degrees, have a mirror resting againt another pillow opposite you at an angle that you can see your vulva in the mirror. Once you are comfortable, look from outside inwards, then put your middle(longest) finger into your vagina to be familiar with what is normal....HEY.....DO NOT GET CARRIED AWAY AT THIS POINT.....This is a medical check up, lol .
Before looking at yourself, ensure a clean shave . I usually advise that after your menstrual period, you shave and take a good look and feel of yourself.....#ourdaddyisintroubletonight, lol.
Looking at your congo helps to build your confidence level and self esteem, you need to love what you see and understand what turns him on by just looking at it. Did you know that the first step to sexual enjoyment is loving your body and the power that lies in the beautiful pink lady between your thighs ? Vaginal self examination also helps to know your genitalia and be aware of early treatable problems like infections and cancer. Be self aware, love your body, love sex and remain faithful to your partner always.
Happy new year everyone, keep reading DLSB.
