17 June 2013

How to prevent boredom in your relationship . Part 2 (Tips for men) SXT 123

Men can get so used to their daily routine and could be extremely content with it, forgetting a relationship consists of two people. A man is comfortable as long as his spouse is smiling even if she is bored and pretending to be happy.


A woman in love would hardly show dissatisfaction in the relationship, it is left for the brother to play his part to spice up the relationship the way it should be done. Adding fun to a relationship costs extra but nothing you can't afford.
I have put together these 10 tips to ensure madam keeps smiling every time she thinks about you. I hope you'd find them useful.

1.  Be spontaneous
I have met only one spontaneous man in this life, the others are on Planet Mars. Surprise her by showing up at her work place with a single rose flower (a bunch if it isn't too much trouble). Give her a hug and a mind blowing kiss. Take her out to lunch if the time is appropriate.  Of course she knows your pocket, she wouldn't request to be taken somewhere you can't afford. Being spontaneous can also mean going out for late bites or icecream, buying her nice things without reasons, cooking her a meal, giving her a massage, bathing her or picking her from work when she isn't expecting you.


2.  Be passionate
I don't know if men are generally shy or just don't like to show how they really feel. It wouldn't hurt to pull her close from time to time, give her some nice roughing and kissing and just let go. That messes with her mind and she would think about you everyday and smile like a fool when alone. Tell her how much she really means to you, tell her how lucky you are to have met her. Women like to hear nice things, say them!


3. Be romantic
A romantic guy would make sure he remembers every anniversary, birthday and special occasions. Take for instance, on their wedding anniversary, Seyi informed all friends and loved ones to send Judith the same text message that read " I can't stop loving you, even if all memory is lost. ...Seyi loves Judith " .

Always do something she'd remember on  special occasions. 


4. Be sociable
Have a few friends over, get drinks and food. Throw a party according to your pocket. Help her with the serving and cleaning.

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Take her out at least once a month to gatherings of friends and family. When out with her, make her feel special with little touch gestures, kind words and sexy names.



5. Have a date night
The best time to choose is the last Friday of every month after pay day. Make sure you wear something nice just for her, if  you are too busy to go out shopping, try  www.komoonline. com for great stuff. Go somewhere new every time, there are so many places to visit. Let her wear something scandalous, sexy and exciting. Let her express her sexuality as she likes and don't forget to get her icecream and Cakes ! NEVER FORGET ICECREAM AND CAKES 

6. Don't be stingy
You are allowed to be prudent, plan and save for the future, but never be stingy. Ensure you work out an allowance for her monthly. Not just for food and house upkeep, but also a little for her hair and other tiny details.

7. Be encouraging
When a woman tells you about a bright new idea she has, be supportive. Ask her how she intends to proceed and what you can do to help. Don't condemn or be judgmental no matter how silly the idea may seem. 

8. Spend sometime apart
When you spend sometime apart, you miss each other and look forward again to the reunion. This can be in form of spending time with family or friends apart from each other.  

9. Be appreciative
When a woman tries to be noticed, NOTICE HER! When she cooks a meal, THANK HER! Whatever effort she puts into the relationship should be APPRECIATED. This makes her feel loved and cherished. This makes her happy and in turn makes you happy.


10. Be an innovative shagger
Try having sex out of bed and try new things.  Get red flower petals, scented candles, wine, a nice movie, music, food, and other nice things. Have the house free to your selves sometimes to have sex in all parts of the house you never thought of...wink#